Friday, January 3, 2025

Responding to Change

Well, it's that time of the year when we all decide to bring in some change in our lives, even though that resolution may fade in a week or two.
So, we thought we should delve into the biblical perspective of change and how to respond to or react to it.
To start with, let's understand change.
Change is a transformation. Change can be internal or external. It can be good or bad. Our reaction to it can be acceptance, rejection, or (as it happens most of the time) silent condonation of it.
How does the bible view change? The Bible is very clear we need internal change. That is because God and His principles never change (even though His methods may). If we need to be more like Him, we need to change. Our old self has to die and be replaced by our new self. This new self then needs to shine so that people around us see the Goodness of our God, encouraging external change in the environment. The Bible gives enough guidelines of what is to change in ourselves and how, before we can hope to see change in our environments.
Mahatma Gandhi also said - Be the change you want to see.
The other change is external change. We know that growth requires change. Many people believe we should also change our morals, ethics, and beliefs to accommodate changes in profession, culture and lifestyles. But sometimes changes in our environment are detrimental to the Christian life, and our relationship with God - aka sin.
Sin brings about a negative change that altered not only Adam and Eve’s behavior and thinking but also their very nature. As a result, their environment changed, along with all of human history. In our sin, we lost our perfect environment and were left to wrest survival from an unforgiving planet (Genesis 3:17–19). Change had come, and it was not a good change.
As Christians our response to change, good or bad, really depends on our desire for changing ourselves, as well as our willingness. At the pool of Bethesda, Jesus found an infirm man who had suffered his condition for a long time. Interestingly, Jesus asked him, “Do you want to get well?” (John 5:6). A strange question with a logical purpose. Before the Lord introduced the man to lifelong change, He wanted to know: do you really want this, or are you more comfortable with your life of begging and living off the charity of others? Are you ready to change?
So how do we respond to external change?
A. What we tend to do is Rationalize or Bend Gods word to make any change suitable to ourselves. This is not a good idea.
Changeable humans do not have the power or authority to change God’s Word, and only the foolish will try. Being judgmental is a small example.
B. In continuation, we should be rejecting certain changes instead of adapting ourselves to those changes. With Gods help, and the guidance of His word, we can select what we accept, reject or condone. We should embrace change, no matter how hard it is, when it comes from God, and similarly reject it, no matter how hard it is, no matter what sacrifice we may be needed, if it is not. If we resolve not to accept or accept, the Holy Spirit will guide us through and provide the strength and protection we need to see it through. (Philippians 4:6-7)
C. All change starts in the mind. Therefore, our mind needs to know what to measure that change against. For that we need to read and internalize Gods word. Internalizing does not mean memorizing, but understanding the different aspects of the subject and its application. That scale will determine what we value enough to adopt.
D. Respond to Jesus. He was sent to change us, to lead us into a relationship with God as was originally planned. However, if we do not respond to His leading that change will never happen.
In summary, our response to change is a 4-step process:
First we must identify whether that change is in line with Gods principles.
Secondly, we must desire to accept or reject that change, want it and determine to make it.
Thirdly, realize we are not infallible. We need Gods help to cross that chasm.
Lastly be willing to be led. Trust in Him and depend on him.


Thursday, January 2, 2025

A New Year Resolution

Our choices decide our relationship with God. Whether we take Him seriously or not. How involved He is in our life and how much we depend on Him.

David Bowman has this to say -
Every day, we have the choice, every moment in fact, to decide who gets to decide—us or God. This should not be a hard choice. The conclusion should be apparent. Yet somehow, I have rationalized exceptions to the rule, alternate outcomes, even truly fantastical courses of action. The one thing all of my better ideas have in common is that none of them were better ideas. (David Bowman)
As we start the new year, think about how we make choices: our choice or Gods choice. In truth, while sometimes we do decide to follow Gods will, most times it is our own human nature who gets to decid3. But, we can discipline our hearts and minds to desire to be in line with Gods choice. While it is extremely difficult, it will be worthwhile to align this year and the rest of the years we have, to God's will and His decisions.


Monday, December 30, 2024

Unseen Blessings: Thank You Lord

"One day, a very rich father took his son on a trip to the country to show him what it was like to be poor. They stayed for a few days and nights on a farm where a very poor family lived.
After they returned home, the father asked his son how he liked the trip. “It was great, Dad,” the son replied. “Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked. “Oh yeah,” the son answered.
“So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father. The son thought for a moment and said, “I saw that we have one dog and they have four. We have a pool that goes halfway across our garden, and they have a creek that never ends. We have fancy lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio is big and reaches the front yard, but they have the whole horizon.
We have a small piece of land, but they have fields that go as far as you can see. We have servants who work for us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow their own. We have walls around our property to keep us safe, but they have friends to protect them.” The father was silent, then the son added, “It showed me just how poor we really are.”
This story makes you think: We often forget how much we have and focus on what we don’t have. What one person thinks is worthless, another person might treasure. It all depends on how you see things."

Sometimes, it takes the perspective of a child to remind us of what really matters.
That perspective was brought to us on the 25th of this month. As we close 2024 tonight, let us review our lives in the past year (s), from the perspective of the Child Jesus.


Story Source: Good Thinking

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